tag:happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk,2009-11-07:/MokoFeed2009-11-07T13:53:46+01:00tag:happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk,2008-11-07:/2008/10/11/labor-and-birth-4856126/#c8203560Sapphire_Night2008-11-07T20:01:33+01:002008-11-07T20:01:33+01:00You have nothing to feel ashamed of, you did the best you could and I bet hardly anyone's labour goes to plan so don't worry about it. The main thing is that you have a healthy little girl, it's the outcome not the event which matters. You neeed to stop giving yourself such a hard time and be proud of yourself. <br> <br> Your husband sounds like an unsupportive selfish prick who needs a reality check. I'm sure his attitude is unhelpful and only serves to make you feel worse about yourself. All you need is a little self-believe, you didn't fail anything as having a baby is not a test of how much of a woman you are or any such rubbish. <br> <br> I hope you are feeling a bit better now, if not keep writing. Take care Em xx<br> tag:happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk,2008-10-11:/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7977406Beanyem2008-10-11T20:24:39+02:002008-10-11T20:24:39+02:00Have started with the birth. Hope you're ok. xtag:happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk,2008-10-11:/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7977399Beanyem2008-10-11T20:24:05+02:002008-10-11T20:24:05+02:00Thank you. I love my babay girl so much, I do know I am very lucky. Hope you are ok. xtag:happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk,2008-10-10:/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7968509Sapphire_Night2008-10-10T15:58:11+02:002008-10-10T15:58:11+02:00What's wrong Em? xxtag:happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk,2008-10-10:/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7967214Pompadour2008-10-10T13:12:51+02:002008-10-10T13:12:51+02:00oh dear, hope whatever's wrong picks up.<br> but lucky, lucky you having a lovely baby daughter.