http://happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk/en-EUMokoFeed10http://happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk/http://data5.blog.de/design/preview/b5/69f64172bf3621f39859fda83b840a_160x200.jpghttp://happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk/2008/10/11/labor-and-birth-4856126/#c8203560tag:happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk,2008-11-07:/2008/10/11/labor-and-birth-4856126/#c8203560Fri, 07 Nov 2008 20:01:33 +0100You have nothing to feel ashamed of, you did the best you could and I bet hardly anyone's labour goes to plan so don't worry about it. The main thing is that you have a healthy little girl, it's the outcome not the event which matters. You neeed to stop giving yourself such a hard time and be proud of yourself. <br> <br> Your husband sounds like an unsupportive selfish prick who needs a reality check. I'm sure his attitude is unhelpful and only serves to make you feel worse about yourself. All you need is a little self-believe, you didn't fail anything as having a baby is not a test of how much of a woman you are or any such rubbish. <br> <br> I hope you are feeling a bit better now, if not keep writing. Take care Em xx<br> http://happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk/2008/10/11/labor-and-birth-4856126/#c8203560http://happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7977406tag:happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk,2008-10-11:/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7977406Sat, 11 Oct 2008 20:24:39 +0200Have started with the birth. Hope you're ok. xhttp://happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7977406http://happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7977399tag:happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk,2008-10-11:/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7977399Sat, 11 Oct 2008 20:24:05 +0200Thank you. I love my babay girl so much, I do know I am very lucky. Hope you are ok. xhttp://happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7977399http://happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7968509tag:happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk,2008-10-10:/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7968509Fri, 10 Oct 2008 15:58:11 +0200What's wrong Em? xxhttp://happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7968509http://happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7967214tag:happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk,2008-10-10:/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7967214Fri, 10 Oct 2008 13:12:51 +0200oh dear, hope whatever's wrong picks up.<br> but lucky, lucky you having a lovely baby daughter.http://happilyeveryafter.blog.co.uk/2008/10/10/hello-world-4849598/#c7967214